how you think will reflect on how you do it~

 if this was the reflection of  your life...how would u think??

at this hour of time....hmm...5.10 am in the morning to blog it out.....means i have something in my mind...something that bothers me that, i can't even make a correct judgement anymore.... i admit, i'm not happy and can be emotional sometimes...but i'm trying my best to overcomes those mistakes..... life is fragile....wht is life about?? food, shelter and protection and also affection as well...

n well i'm not good in dealing with my emotions when it comes to affection. would u even think that you are stupid enough to be fool ....it's really up to you actually...quotes such as "to be or not to be"....... u can be the one fooling or get fool about it...but, why do u wanna get involve in fooling one another...it's a funny thing happen in a human...when u know someone makes mistakes....can u actually really forgive them?? the ans would be YES....Y? cause our heart are fragile enough.... i bet everyone makes mistakes....i remember one of my lecturer says... mistakes are part of being human... u can choose to forgive...u can choose to forget...but .....  human will still make the same mistakes over and over again unconsciously.... i dare not to say myself to be perfect and do no mistakes....instead i think my mistakes was being naive to believe something that would change....i'm willing to put in all the time....to wait for the miracle to happen....put high hopes in it... but it would always not up to my expectations... OR i could say.... NOT EVEN CLOSE..... to believe is a gud thing....but when reality hits u up.... things that you believe will gone disappear.... because u can't control ppl actions and behavior, therefore we only will be ended with break downs.... phew....wht a miserable life you can say..... another quotes here... " fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" ....

Now  think again...when a person did a mistakes...it's really worth giving them a chance to prove they could rebound  it??? Chances are , why not give it a try...... hmmm...sounds like a gud idea..... then problem is....
A wound would still be a wound...no matter how hard u try to forget the past...it still happen before....n wound could be heal with those positive thinking n time of course...if the one who make mistakes really try hard to fix it, the wound would heal ....... but wht if they don't??? ans would be....OUCH~!!! You hurt me again~!!!.....u open up the wound n put more pain on it.... i know it felt bad when shits happen~.... and by this point, your trust towards that person will be re- evaluate again.... maybe it was a mistakes of your own to give this person a chance....but at the same time it could also deepen the pain.....

BUT think again ..... these thing u having are just part of being human.....chinese proverbs always say... life is about sweetness~, sourness~ bitterness~ , and also spiciness ~ being human is not easy sometimes.... therefore we need to go through 3 elements that we don't like .... because it's just part of life.... n thru this... some might have grown up... but some are heading to the wrong direction...making it worst when they don't realize it.....n so...my conclusion is.... don't overtake it....just loosen it up...life are NOT meant to be living in this way.... so wht if u really get hurt....??? when you think back again....you might thank them up for giving an experience in life....to make you stronger n tougher when facing these situations... i'm not an expert either...but at least i get the point n try to make a better thought of it.... positive thinking will of course lead to a positive outcome....although it might not be up to our expectations, but it will still be good enough... my last quotes here...: HOW you Think will Reflect on How YOU would do it~!!!!....

nite ppl....XOXO~