Being option or priority~

Something that been on my mind these few days...Something i couldn't forget is when you hoping something to be happen, it would not just happen....it always happen with a disappointment... and what not if it's in ur love life~

Finding the right person at the right time is kinda hard, especially your age is growing year by year, lesser friends around you, and wht not is the loneliness that you feel when you have nothing to do. At this moment, you would always think that having a companion would be great to fulfil your free time. How lovey-dovey to be to have someone by your side. Yes, but it takes days to truly understand a person needs and wants in their life, their goals and achievement. Finding the right person is what we wants. Finding a person just because you feel lonely or jealous on other pairs would not makes things right. 

When it comes to male vs female:

Male do actually fell in love quicker, it can even be their love at first sight, starting to court the girl they think they like but eventually lead on the females to think they love. Truth is, when the male found it's not really compatible, it would be a disastrous ending for the both. Some guys would like to stall things for quite some times before ending it or either way for the girls to do so. However some guys fell for the personality and quality that a girl really posses in her~ Now, that's the charm that a guy know wht he's been looking for in a girl.

For a girls, they tend to spend a little bit more time to fell in love with the other. Wht they need is the time to understand the person that they really want to spend their rest of their future with. For every single girl, she will have some criteria or characteristic that they hoping someone might fulfil it. However, it is not necessarily to accept someone if they don't possess the criteria listed. It could be some attraction such as  sense of humour, sense of style, and the most important is their 1st impression on someone they saw~ 

Anyhow, these were just an opinion from me, it could not be representing the whole wide population thou. Everyone is different in this world..

I can't really give you a good advice or guidance when myself here were not even a love expert. The simple plain me wasn't any people options or priority in life. Maybe i'm too though or maybe i'm not. Some may think i'm hard to understand or was afraid of me based on my size and rough side thinking and playing like a boy sometimes. well....that's the fact that i'm playful, but i won't bite...i love crying when things get out of control but i feel better after crying and hey.... i get compliment of having a cute face when i cry...... so i shud be thankful for it??? LOL...... just joking ppl..... don't take things too seriously.....  

What i really think of love should be is to wait for the right person..... There are always peoples that we meet that we might think he or she could be our right and only one. What i could tell you that, good things need to be waited, so slow down your phase get to know each other better before proceeding to the next stage in your love life..... It all started as friends,  not as you boyfriend or girlfriend. It's just not good to rush thing especially to fell in love.

P.s: Right in deep corner of your heart, you can differentiate to yourself isit love or isit just lust???
Ask yourself the meaning of love?~ Do you really know the other person well?  Do you want tht person to be part of your future? Are both of you really compatible for the rest of you life???

beside asking all these questions, you need to understand that being together at the moment will not be the same after getting married....so the questions is are you ready to face things which is not likely to be happen at ur dating life???