Being option or priority~

Something that been on my mind these few days...Something i couldn't forget is when you hoping something to be happen, it would not just happen....it always happen with a disappointment... and what not if it's in ur love life~

Finding the right person at the right time is kinda hard, especially your age is growing year by year, lesser friends around you, and wht not is the loneliness that you feel when you have nothing to do. At this moment, you would always think that having a companion would be great to fulfil your free time. How lovey-dovey to be to have someone by your side. Yes, but it takes days to truly understand a person needs and wants in their life, their goals and achievement. Finding the right person is what we wants. Finding a person just because you feel lonely or jealous on other pairs would not makes things right. 

When it comes to male vs female:

Male do actually fell in love quicker, it can even be their love at first sight, starting to court the girl they think they like but eventually lead on the females to think they love. Truth is, when the male found it's not really compatible, it would be a disastrous ending for the both. Some guys would like to stall things for quite some times before ending it or either way for the girls to do so. However some guys fell for the personality and quality that a girl really posses in her~ Now, that's the charm that a guy know wht he's been looking for in a girl.

For a girls, they tend to spend a little bit more time to fell in love with the other. Wht they need is the time to understand the person that they really want to spend their rest of their future with. For every single girl, she will have some criteria or characteristic that they hoping someone might fulfil it. However, it is not necessarily to accept someone if they don't possess the criteria listed. It could be some attraction such as  sense of humour, sense of style, and the most important is their 1st impression on someone they saw~ 

Anyhow, these were just an opinion from me, it could not be representing the whole wide population thou. Everyone is different in this world..

I can't really give you a good advice or guidance when myself here were not even a love expert. The simple plain me wasn't any people options or priority in life. Maybe i'm too though or maybe i'm not. Some may think i'm hard to understand or was afraid of me based on my size and rough side thinking and playing like a boy sometimes. well....that's the fact that i'm playful, but i won't bite...i love crying when things get out of control but i feel better after crying and hey.... i get compliment of having a cute face when i cry...... so i shud be thankful for it??? LOL...... just joking ppl..... don't take things too seriously.....  

What i really think of love should be is to wait for the right person..... There are always peoples that we meet that we might think he or she could be our right and only one. What i could tell you that, good things need to be waited, so slow down your phase get to know each other better before proceeding to the next stage in your love life..... It all started as friends,  not as you boyfriend or girlfriend. It's just not good to rush thing especially to fell in love.

P.s: Right in deep corner of your heart, you can differentiate to yourself isit love or isit just lust???
Ask yourself the meaning of love?~ Do you really know the other person well?  Do you want tht person to be part of your future? Are both of you really compatible for the rest of you life???

beside asking all these questions, you need to understand that being together at the moment will not be the same after getting married....so the questions is are you ready to face things which is not likely to be happen at ur dating life???

Things to see in Taiping~

Hey guys~

This is my 2nd time in Taiping around or u can say part 2 of Taiping...to see part 1 you may go to this link: Our Taiping half day trip to check it out...anyways  this time i went somewhere else..

departing from Kampar again (driving all the entire trip) at 10 something in the morning...and reach Taiping around 11 something. So...before entering into the town we have a stop at the Bukit Gantang R&R where there are plenty of fruits you can found here...n those mangoes are definitely huge....i bought one back on the way back to Kampar .....

Comparing my Samsung S2 with it....(FYI:I open it 4 days after bought it cause it seems unripe but end up it's still sour and not sweet...)

So our Taiping trips begin in the car where my friend just drove around Taiping and show us the place around the Taiping lake.. After tht we had lunch at the pasar where there are many plenty of fried fish ball noodles that are most famous here....you can't get in other places...and if you are craving for shave ice...you can walk to the end of the side there to have it....

After lunch we visit the museum...which you have to pay a very affordable entrance fees for it...since we were adult(Malaysian).. each of us only pay Rm2 for it~ you can refer to the fees chart in the counter....

Museum entrance ticket

It's not quite bad since you get to enjoy air-cond and look at antique, preserve animals and bones, Malaysian Culture, history and some old cars....

Yeah...and we didn't get to go outdoors as much as it is raining that time...and i dunno whether it's true or not that in Taiping it's always raining????

Some of the preserve animals looks so real...

Looks like aquarium...but it's not....just some display

After the museum.... we went to have some cendol and continue to the  Matang Mangrove Forest Reserve.....& in Malaysia there's very little place where u can really see the nature of it....so...for me..it's like a rare opportunity... i saw on TV before, but it's my 1st time experiencing it~ The place if far more distance from the town area which located in Kuala Sepetang there..You could really enjoy the beautiful scenery without any charges from it.... One thing for sure...don't stay here for too long cause there are plenty of mosquito out there sucking your blood.... and they do provides lodges for a nite stay but i think it's more suitable for the junior in school to have camp here....

F.Y.I: when reach this area....u can drive all the way to till the end here to view the river

That's for update in Taiping

Get inspired....

Months ago...i got so depressed that i even forgotten how to be the happy girl i used to be.......
But then i realized that..... I can't keep blaming on those ppl who makes me feel bad in my life....I start looking for inspiration here n there  & i finally found it Youtube....yeah..... there are many videos that we can definitely watch....n when i go thru the what to watch list....there's like a reality Tv show called the extreme makeover... which ppl are given hope n all sort of things...... I'm really thankful n fortunate to be living in such a content life if compare to those ppl......So...there's goes my inspiration...in making my life to be better....

Next.....my fav quote..... "A year from now....you wish you have started today"..... There can be many things that one human can be achieve for a year..... point is.... do you wan it....?? do you think it's crazy to achieve but isit??? those things got me thinking that.....i shud set a year goal to see wht i will be going thru this year too... it's seems easy to say than to do....but i will try my best to achieve it~

Oh ya...shout out to some dear friends that i meet in this semester....really happy to get to know you guys...n thanks for spoiling me like princess.... :P

ability to be happy???

since a few months ago ...... i think i have lost track wht my life should be....wht my goals were..... i have never been so miserable in this state that i totally lost the happiness that i had before....i'm unable to have a sincerely happy smile in photos....even with the smile in it...one of my  friends notice...why are you faking a smile ...why no mood????

i really dunno how to explain to him....n so it keep it in my heart and bury it deep down...... maybe it's all those disappointment that i always get..... maybe all those high hopes that i have kept are not meant to be happen in my life...... n so ...i lost faith and hopes that may happen.... maybe i'm feeling that growing old...n i feel no longer youthful as before
Seriously...i don't even know wht's wrong with me and have no idea how to gain back all those happy feelings that i have once own before..... those feelings are just completely vanish and the ability to smile like the girl i used to be is completely disappear~

Perhaps i need time to find it back????

My 1st cup of Speciality Coffee from a single Origin

Hi peeps, recently dieting had been hard for me and i have so much craving going on my brain~.... and so....ppl have been giving me advise tht coffee can help you curb these feelings and all....and while i was Fb-ing...i saw this page Esperimento caffè 咖啡实验坊...well according to their page they are mostly open on Monday and Tuesday....so i decided to go stroll around in Harvard area ....

It's not like a normal coffee shop, but it's much more like handcraft coffee shop...where most of the things are freshly make and prep.... they don't have fancy table, but they have some equipment and passion to brew their coffee...and some coffee beans are hardly found in Malaysia...and need to be bid for a much more higher price.... At here you can't expect the coffee to be serve immediately nor recommended for you can add sugar or milk to it... It's purely a Speciality coffee... if you watch the recent TVB drama Coffee Cat mama ...the so call 精品咖啡 is now can be found in Kampar at the most reasonable price...

Well, in malaysia to drink a glass of speciality coffee isn't easy at all, as not much shop are doing it and even they have, are you willing to spend money on just a tiny cup of it??

Basically there are many different types of coffee beans and method to brew the coffee, and each method can bring out the special taste that the coffee bean should have....

For me I'm not a coffee addict but no harm trying rite??... and most of the time, i'm prefer to have milk based coffee but there's always a first try for something new~! and my 1st attempt is to try the Kalita Wave method using the Honduras beans... well...for the tasting...i can't tell you because different ppl have diff tongue...so...tasting for me might not be the same for you~...i recommend you to try it out urself....

The one of the kind experience that you can get in Kampar...where else weyh??? seen it in drama...but have you try it for real???? For me, this is my experience in experimenting my 1st cup of speciality coffee.... and there will be more in trying out different types of bean and method..... Try It yourself~

Some of the Apparatus that were used to brew coffee....and each method have their own speciality

My 2014~

Hi guys, 

i'm back to update my 1st blog post in 2014...

Well looking back at the past 2013, there are things happen that i wish it would be happening and so many unhappy thought and moments which making me lost at a point. But 2014 is where i shud be starting afresh.....Leave to unhappy memories behind and get better with myself this year.

Well to cheer my self/ life up, here are some new year resolutions:

1.To study and graduate by end of this year

2.To get fit and healthy in this whole year

3.To spend wisely and do a little saving~

4.To be happy even there are haters

5.Be grateful for what i had

6.To complete things that i need to be done

7.Trying to be as neutral as i can

8.Try to control frustrations that i received from time to time

9.Pray more for everyone 

10.To be a better person and get ready for 2015~

So...Yeah....that's it..my resolution throughout the year~